"How to Get a Husband if You Want One!” Wow! It would seem to be the most natural thing in the world to find one’s mate, but in our society today it seems to be getting more difficult, both for men as well as women. The Bible speaks about this most practical area of life. One great concern is to be equally matched in marriage. When we are careful in our pursuit of relationships that may lead to marriage and are not willing to settle for less than what we truly desire in a marriage partner, then we are less likely to rush into a relationship that is less than ideal.